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A woman in a small town, is looking for long term romance because she
has more free time on her hands. I also think that the woman in the
smaller city doesn't want to be known as a slut. If you live in a
bigger city, chances are you won't know half of the town.
When women go out to bars and end up engaging in a one night stand, it
isn't just because it happened. Us men like to think that we put the
moves on a woman and we won her over. That we hunted the prey and we
bagged it without a ounce of defeat. This isn't really true. Chances
are if you get a one night stand, she left the house looking to have
sex. Before she got in the door at the bar she knew she wanted to
have sex with someone. Women are becoming more like men. They are
becoming the hunter and not the hunted. Times have changed my friend,
there isn't a whole lot we can do about that. All we can do is work
with what we got.
Here is some tips for keeping that one night stand so you can have sex
again and again. Some men like the idea of having sex with a woman
and not having an emotional bond with her. Most men call these
escorts or whores, but if you play your cards right you won't have to
pay for sex.
Some
good tips:
Be a gentleman.
After you both have your orgasms tell her how nice the experience
was. Walk her to your door and make sure to smile a lot. If you are
at her place, make sure to tell her that you had a great time before
you leave.
Don't make the first move.
If she is naked on the bed, there is no reason to go ape shit on
her. Take your time, let her dictate how the night will go. Listen
to her every whimper and moan to see what she likes. Work extra hard
to please her. Think of this as an audition, if you perform well, you
will get to come back.
Blow her mind.
You should try to make the sex as good as possible. Don't forget
that women are mental creatures, make love to her mind and body.
Makes sure that there is no stone unturned when it comes to pleasing
her. If you succeed, you might get seconds.
Exchange numbers.
After you are done having sex, exchange phone numbers. Don't call her
though, let her call you. If she doesn't call you, oh well, at least
you got a good lay out of it. Chances are, if you done a good job,
she will call you back.
Keep it light and smooth.
Make sure that your sex is nothing more than a hobby with her. If
you do fall in love with her, don't let her know. This might cause
her to push herself away from you because she isn't looking for a
relationship. Be glad you are getting some action.
The downfall in this kind of sex is that one person would get
emotionally attached. The problem is, when only one person does
this. If it is a one sided thing, then chances are someone is going
to get hurt. If you are able to go into this with an open mind then I
would suggest that you do so. If you can't, I don't think I would per
sue it more than a one night stand. All you are going to do is hurt
yourself.
I have known many women who try to do one night stands and end up
getting themselves hurt. What they end up trying to do is win over a
hot stud that they think they couldn't have gotten unless they put
out. Once they put out, they realize that they made a mistake and
their feelings are hurt. In the worst case, you could have a nut on
your hands. She might make your life a living hell if you don't fall
in love with her. We have all known women like this. They will do
anything and everything in hopes that you fall in love with them. I
have known women who get pregnant on purpose to try to get the man to
love them. They don't realize that all they love is what is between
their legs, not what is between their ears.
These types of sexual flings can be good. I hate to beat the old
drum, but I don't think I can talk enough about this. If you are
going to engage in this sort of sexual behavior you always need to
make sure you use a condom. Don't fall for when she says she is on
the pill or she can't have babies. Just because she is on the pill,
doesn't mean that she won't spread diseases. The pill doesn't keep
her from getting diseases and it won't you either.
As always, try to have fun. You need to get out and enjoy life when
ever you can. Sex can be great if the people are open enough to enjoy
it. Protect yourself, protect her, and know what is at stake before
you pound her. That will keep you safe. |
